How a $650,100 lunch with Warren Buffett changed one hedge fund manager's life
On June 25, 2008, value investor Guy Spier and Mohnish Pabrai had a charity 'power lunch' with Warren Buffett at Smith & Wollensky's they won for $650,100 during an eBay auction. · Yahoo Finance · Alex Z Photography

The 17th annual “power lunch” with Warren Buffett was recently won by a mystery bidder for $3,456,789, matching the record price paid back in 2012.

The anonymous winner will get to bring up to seven guests to have lunch with Buffett at Smith & Wollensky's Midtown Manhattan location.

While it might seem like a hefty price to pay for a steak lunch, all the proceeds go to a worthy cause, GLIDE—a charitable organization focused on alleviating poverty. For those who have won in the past, it's absolutely worth it too.

Value investor Guy Spier, who won the lunch in 2008 bidding alongside his friend Mohnish Pabrai, recounted the experience in his book "Education Of A Value Investor." Spier, the founder of Aquamarine Fund, wrote that meeting Buffett had a “life-changing” impact on how he lives his life and invests.

Just a year prior, Pabrai convinced Spier that they should team up to bid in a charity auction on eBay. A young fund manager with a third child on the way at the time, Spier was good for contributing up to $250,000. The duo won the eBay auction on their second attempt for $650,100.

Call me 'Warren'

On June 25, 2008, Spier, Pabrai, their wives, and Pabrai’s two daughters joined Buffett at the iconic steakhouse.

"I was very nervous beforehand," Spier told Yahoo Finance. "I wanted him to like me. I knew he didn't have to like me, he was there to have lunch with me. I didn't sleep very much or well. I arrived a bit like showing up for a really important exam."

Guy Spier, the founder of Aquamarine Fund, with Warren Buffett at Smith & Wollensky's.
Guy Spier, the founder of Aquamarine Fund, with Warren Buffett at Smith & Wollensky's.

Buffett immediately put the group at ease, telling them to call him "Warren" and even joking with Pabrai's young daughters that he eats only things he would've as a five year-old.

Over medium-rare steaks, hash browns, and Coca-Colas (a Cherry Coke for Buffett, of course), they spent three-hours engaged in a wide-ranging conversation. It wasn’t just the pearls of wisdom that Buffett would drop, but rather the subtleties that would stay with Spier.

Being in a room with Buffett, Spier explained, you realize he has this "prodigious intelligence, incredible intensity, and amazing simplicity." Just being in a room with Buffett was a lesson itself.

"I think the air vibrates differently around some people," Spier said, adding, "Leadership is the way you make people feel when they're in a room with you."

One takeaway was to surround yourself with the right people. It not about trying to be that person, but rather learning from them.

Buffett told Spier and Pabrai: "Hang out with people better than you, and you cannot help but improve."

The 'Inner Scorecard'

Perhaps the most profound takeaway from their discussion with Buffett was the importance of measuring yourself by an “inner scorecard” as opposed to an “outer scorecard"— the need for public approval and recognition.